[Update] How to Treat One That Despises You of Blogging
Okay, Guys, this is just worth writing at after having some competitors from another source [ source name is hidden]. You may be dealing with a poop load of blogging resistance. Yea! its real, after making up my mind to become a blogger. Many challenges from many angles arose that make me start having the feeling of changing to another source direction of my online activities. [ Still, I am not disclosing the source for security purpose.
I love everyone who succeeds in any online business ] "Oops! Blogging doesn't pay, and You want to be part of the sphere ? " that was the response gotten from friends immediately they have the knowledge that " I AM A BLOGGER." To me, should this my blueprint for failure or blueprint for success? You need to ask You, reading this right now that same question "should this my blueprint for failure or blueprint for success? " Because You don’t work a “ real job ” according to some people that know You spent every single second on top of SYSTEM. I know, When I was new to blogging, I face many difficulties from Family and Friends. They do ask
Me when I was going to land a real job. A job that will pay the bills. A position that will afford me generous medical benefits. ? Till date, some folks believe I am sitting on a system all day and night long, dawdling around, passing the time doing something silly with my order. In specific Country where blogging is slowly having the impact of gaining traction as a viable means of earning the full-time income, You may face many criticisms from Family and Friends each time they see
You ON SYSTEM. Some people may be just entirely rudely hear-ted when is blogging mentioned, and some will like to be part of the sphere but, he/she can't afford to spend the time I do spend doing nothing [ just want they thought ] They believe its a fallacy, myth, or some fabrication of Yours that keeps You out from the real WORLD JOB! I wish to share this base on what I've faced from the very right time I begin the blogging job. Today,
I what to share to You guys 8 [EIGHT] Powerful words that will help You to be freed from those, anger, criticism, resentment, or even act of jealousy, and any other energy that flows in Your way from those such Family and Friends. The thing is this " All About Them is Not About You!!! "The thing here is this, If someone doesn’t, or doubt blogging is a not a real online job, business or legitimate job, then consider the above statement which says, " All About Them is Not About You!!! "
NOTE 1:- When someone tried to be critical of You while doing Your job [ Blogging ], Believe me, they are just seeing You succeeding through their own chosen prism of fear-based emotions, jealousy, and the most overall is that lack of clarity that reflects someone who in truth. DEAR FELLOW BLOGGERS,
ADMIRES WHAT YOU DO!
NOTE 2 :- When someone leaving in the same hometown or village as the case may be, who tells You to get a real job or to build a legitimate business and tells You to stop waisting Your timely precious time .typing aways at the keyboard all day and night so You can get to the real world Job [ Lol, is that Your business for You to me ? Oops! ] it has nothing to do with You and everything that concerns what You do!
NOTE 3:- These days, even if the folks I am closest to question why I do what I do, if it is legitimate and attempt to dissuade me from blogging as much as I do, I sit unstirred. No fear there. No anger there. No lack of clarity there. Peace. Calm. Love. Fun. No fighting.
NOTE 4:- The most important thing You need to understand is when You're contempt with what You do or doing then, face it with no regards to Friends who try to dissuade You from it. I have fun when rendering free service to human beings for their needs in a period of time every day, Like any business owner, offline or online.
NOTE 5:- When someone shares an unhearted critical opinion of how I view my life, it has everything ton concerns them and nothing to concerns me. So, I look no silly back instead I carry on, smiling, knowing the argument involves the individual and themselves and has nothing to impact from me.
Bloggers Worldwide let Unite together! "its worth it."
NOTE 6 :- My fellows BLOGGERS in every part of the whole WORLD, Nigerians Bloggers [my African bloggers], Pakistani bloggers, Indian bloggers, Rocking bloggers and Bangladeshi bloggers in all the nations where blogging is still seen with a thing of imagination to the eye by the general public, I understand what You're going through. A few months ago I can even recall, my mom told me after being convinced of what I do online, she finally accept it and tell me this “Let’s face it; You’re an office worker, just as others ”, when I talked about what I do that makes me happy and earn some bucks online. Credit to My lovely mum, I love You mom, heaps!!!
NOTE 7:- Sometimes, Friends and Family will just walk to me and tell, " I am wasting my time on the internet, I smile "NOTE: " All About Them is Not About You!!! " When some tell me I am sitting there on PC every day and nightfall working when I should be out enjoying life, interacting with human beings in an offline setting and getting away from the computer, I smile. [does that matter in the presence of a BLOGGER ?]
NOTE 8:- My fellow BLOGGERS, don’t allow an unclear person’s views to drive You away from what You do to make You happy. Have fun with and while blogging. Try and render useful service to the World. NOTE:- You write for the whole World, not You alone! Be generous. See and feel the human beings You are helping with needed information, serving and inspiring through the internet medium. At this junction, I would love to take a break, thank You for coming and reading this I APPRECIATE!
What You must know, to my fellow's Bloggers in Nigerians, the blogging World will change in our Country some day. When all boys with PC seems to be frauds-star who stream around the internet World seeking to whom to play the dirty game with.... hmmmmmmmm.